You don't recover alone
Addiction or trauma never affect one person alone. Partners, parents, children and other loved ones also contribute to the impact.
You may feel powerless.
You may be angry, hurt, or exhausted.
Maybe you're trying to keep it all together.
At Affect2U, we find it important that you also receive support. Not only to better understand the other person, but also to be stronger in the process yourself.
Repairing relationships
Addiction, trauma and mental health struggles do not only affect the individual. They also affect partners, families and close relationships.
Without support, old patterns can continue even while someone is in treatment. Family counselling helps loved ones understand what is happening, communicate more clearly, and begin repairing trust in a healthier way.
Where appropriate, we involve family members or partners through individual conversations and family sessions.
This can support more stable recovery and help everyone understand their role in the process.
taking over too much responsibility
rescuing, controlling or trying to manage the other person
conflict, distance or emotional shutdown
guilt, shame, anger or fear
uncertainty about boundaries
We offer support in different ways, depending on what is needed.



We offer a safe space to understand your own experience, ask questions, and learn how to support recovery without losing yourself.
A safe and confidential environment
No shame or blame
Space for your feelings, questions and concerns
Practical tools for difficult conversations
A better understanding of addiction, trauma and recovery
Take the first step
Whether you are a partner, parent, sibling, family member or friend, your experience matters too.
We offer space to ask questions, understand what is happening, and explore how best to support the person you care about without losing yourself.
Signs that may point to an addiction in a young person include secrecy, mood swings, withdrawing from friends and family, slipping school results, or finding it harder and harder to stop a particular behaviour. If you are worried, trust that feeling. Wondering whether your son or daughter can come here: our programmes start at 18. If your child is younger, an exception is still possible after an intake conversation and a personal assessment. Do call us, even if the advice you are looking for is mainly for yourself.
Living with someone who is addicted often brings a lot of uncertainty. You worry, you doubt what you should or should not say, and at times you feel responsible for the other person's behaviour. That is exhausting, certainly when it goes on for a long time. You are not alone in this: at Affect2U we also offer guidance to partners, parents and other loved ones, so that you can stand stronger in this situation yourself.
As the parent of a child with an addiction, you often feel powerless, guilty or unheard. It is important to know that you are not alone in this, and that asking for help is not a failure. Affect2U offers guidance to parents and family, so you can learn how to set boundaries, how to offer support without taking over the problem, and how to stay standing yourself during a difficult period.
An addiction often puts a relationship under pressure. Trust is put to the test, communication becomes harder, and the partner without the addiction tends to take on more and more responsibility without realising it. Familiar patterns are lies, unpredictable behaviour and a growing distance. Professional guidance can help to break through this dynamic, for both partners.
It is not your job to fix your partner's addiction, however hard that is to accept. What can help: setting boundaries, making sure you have enough support of your own, and starting the conversation without blame. At Affect2U we also offer guidance for partners, so that you do not have to go through this on your own.
Typical behaviour in someone with an addiction includes playing down or denying how much they use, shifting moods, secrecy, promises that are broken again and again, and withdrawing from social contact. These signs are often hard to read when you are in the middle of the situation yourself. If any of this sounds familiar, it can be worth talking it over with someone.
For many parents, letting go feels like giving up, but it is really about something else: leaving the responsibility for recovery with your child, while you stay a person in the relationship. It does not mean you stop loving your son or daughter. It means you stop taking over their behaviour or removing its consequences. This is a heavy and very personal decision. You are welcome to talk it through with us, without any obligation.
Many partners and family members try to carry everything on their own for a long time. Support can help you see the situation more clearly again and find support for yourself. You will learn how to look after yourself better, and how to stay involved in the recovery process in a healthy way.
Addiction and trauma often have an impact on the whole family or on your relationship. Involving family members in the recovery process creates greater understanding, reveals patterns and increases the chance of lasting recovery.
Family counselling is support for partners, parents and other loved ones of someone struggling with addiction or mental health problems. In these sessions we work on things like communication, setting boundaries, rebuilding trust and breaking unhealthy patterns.
Yes. Even if the person is not yet in treatment, counselling for partners or family members can be useful. You get space to share your own story, insight into addiction patterns and practical tools for dealing with the situation.
Dealing with someone who has an addiction can be emotionally tough. Many partners or family members feel powerless, angry or exhausted. It can help to seek support, so that you learn how to handle difficult situations, set clear boundaries and better understand what is going on.