When gaming starts to take over your life
Games are everywhere today. For many people, they are a way to relax, maintain social contacts or escape from stress. For some, however, gaming becomes more than just a hobby.
What starts as relaxation can gradually grow into something that requires more and more time, energy and attention. Work, school, relationships, or sleep can come under pressure, while quitting becomes increasingly difficult. At Affect2U, we don't just look at the gaming itself. We mainly investigate why gaming has come to play such an important role and what lies beneath it.


At Affect2U, we look beyond gaming itself. Together, we investigate what needs, emotions or experiences lie behind the behavior.
We work in a small-scale, homely environment with a multidisciplinary team of psychologists, therapists and experience experts. The goal is not just to play less, but to regain balance and control in your daily life.
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When you notice that quitting is not working, it is important not to keep procrastinating. A first conversation can bring peace and clarity.
Gaming does tend to get out of hand more often among teenagers and young adults, partly because games are built to keep rewarding you. We see it happen in adults just as readily. Our gaming programmes have a lower age limit of eighteen. Where someone is younger, an intake conversation and an individual assessment tell us whether an exception is workable. In the meantime, parents of a younger gamer are welcome to come to us for advice on screen agreements and on when to step in.
Stopping on your own is possible, but games work against you: they are designed to keep rewarding you, with a next level or one more round always waiting. Fellow players are often counting on you as well, so stepping away can feel like letting them down. That is why cutting back usually works less well than pausing completely for a while, because once you launch the game hours disappear again. If that does not work, it says nothing about your willpower, and support can help you look at what gaming is filling in for you.
Common signs include struggling to stop, regularly playing for longer than you intended, becoming irritable when you cannot game, a lack of sleep, trouble concentrating and less interest in activities outside gaming.
There is no exact number of hours that determines when gaming becomes problematic. More important is the impact on your life. When gaming displaces other activities, disrupts your sleep, or causes tension in relationships, it can be a sign that balance is being lost.
Playing a lot does not automatically mean you are addicted to gaming. It becomes a problem when gaming is hard to stop and starts to have a negative impact on your daily life. For example, when school, work, relationships or sleep begin to suffer and you carry on anyway.