When sexual urges take control
Having a strong sex drive does not automatically mean there is a sex addiction. The difference lies mainly in the level of control you experience. You may regularly promise yourself to stop certain sexual behaviour, only to find that you cannot.
Perhaps sex takes up more and more of your time, you keep things hidden from your partner, or you notice that your behaviour is affecting your relationship, your work or the way you see yourself. In that case, there may be compulsive sexual behaviour. At Affect2U you can turn to us for help with sex addiction in a safe and discreet environment. Without judgement and without shame. We do not only look at the sexual behaviour itself, but above all at what lies underneath it.


Anyone looking for help with sex addiction does not automatically need residential admission. For some people, individual or outpatient guidance is sufficient. A programme can include:
For many people, shame is an important reason to postpone seeking help for sex addiction. Perhaps you have never spoken to anyone about what is happening. Perhaps even your partner does not know everything. You do not need to have all the answers at a first conversation.
That is why at Affect2U we always start with an intake conversation, in full discretion and without judgement. Together we look at which programme is most appropriate, outpatient or residential.
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When you notice that quitting is not working, it is important not to keep procrastinating. A first conversation can bring peace and clarity.
Having a lot of sex or a high libido does not automatically mean you are addicted to sex. What matters more is whether you feel in control. When you try to stop again and again without succeeding, and the behaviour has negative consequences for your relationship, your work or your wellbeing, there may be problematic or compulsive sexual behaviour.
Common signs include being constantly preoccupied with sexual stimuli, finding it hard to stop, keeping the behaviour secret, falling into the same patterns over and over, and feelings of guilt or shame. Problems in your relationship or difficulties at work can be signs as well.
Some people are able to change their behaviour on their own. But if you keep ending up in the same pattern again and again, professional support can help you not only to change the behaviour, but also to understand the triggers and the patterns underneath it.
Help can include individual therapy, group sessions, guidance around emotions and triggers, and support for your partner. Depending on the severity and on your personal situation, care can take place on an outpatient or a residential basis.
A residential admission may be possible when more intensive care is called for. An admission is not necessary for everyone, though. That is why Affect2U always starts with an intake conversation, in which your situation is discussed and we look together at which programme fits you best.