When sexual urges take control

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Sex addiction

When sexual urges no longer feel free

Having a strong sex drive does not automatically mean there is a sex addiction. The difference lies mainly in the level of control you experience. You may regularly promise yourself to stop certain sexual behaviour, only to find that you cannot.

Perhaps sex takes up more and more of your time, you keep things hidden from your partner, or you notice that your behaviour is affecting your relationship, your work or the way you see yourself. In that case, there may be compulsive sexual behaviour. At Affect2U you can turn to us for help with sex addiction in a safe and discreet environment. Without judgement and without shame. We do not only look at the sexual behaviour itself, but above all at what lies underneath it.

Possible signs:

How do you recognize a sex addiction?

A strong sex drive in itself is not a sex addiction. It becomes problematic when you lose control over your behaviour and continue despite the negative consequences. Possible symptoms of sex addiction include:
  • you try to stop or cut back, but keep falling into the same behaviour
  • sexual thoughts or urges take up a lot of your time and attention
  • you hide your behaviour from your partner or the people around you
  • you need increasingly strong or different stimuli
  • you use sex to regulate stress, loneliness or difficult emotions
  • you feel guilt, shame or regret afterwards
  • your relationship, work or daily life comes under pressure
Do you recognize several of these signs? That does not mean you have to label yourself straight away. A conversation with a professional can help to clarify what is really going on.
Stopping is not always something you can do alone

How do I stop a sex addiction?

"From tomorrow I will not do it anymore." For many people, that is where it starts. Deleting apps, blocking certain websites, avoiding triggers or making promises to themselves. Yet after a while the urge returns. That is because stopping on its own is not always enough. At Affect2U we look at what function the behaviour has come to serve.

Anyone looking for help with sex addiction does not automatically need residential admission. For some people, individual or outpatient guidance is sufficient. A programme can include:

The goal is not to remove sexuality from your life, but to experience freedom of choice and control again. You are guided by a multidisciplinary team of professionals.
How to stop?

How does Affect2U help with a

sex-addiction

?

For many people, shame is an important reason to postpone seeking help for sex addiction. Perhaps you have never spoken to anyone about what is happening. Perhaps even your partner does not know everything. You do not need to have all the answers at a first conversation.

That is why at Affect2U we always start with an intake conversation, in full discretion and without judgement. Together we look at which programme is most appropriate, outpatient or residential.

Ready to take the next step?

Time to look at your situation
honestly.

When you notice that quitting is not working, it is important not to keep procrastinating. A first conversation can bring peace and clarity.

Doubts about your sexual behaviour?

FAQs

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